Behavior Guidance

How adults respond to a child’s behavior can have an impact not only directly on that specific behavior, but also on a child’s long-term critical thinking skills and self-esteem.

The best practices (per GO NAPSACC) and the related resources in this section focus on how child care providers can give effective directions; provide positive, descriptive comments; and avoid humiliate children. Healthy practices in these areas can support positive childhood growth, communication skill development, and self-esteem.

Best Practices

Select each GO NAPSACC best practice below to find related resources.

“Directions are worded positively and clearly stated to ensure children’s understanding.”

Communication is Key

Summary: Practical tips and examples on how to communicate expectations and redirect young children effectively and with kindness.

Source: National Center for Pyramid Model Innovations


Effective Instructions

Summary: Find video lessons by scrolling down. Further still are printable resources such as a child care provider guide, family guide (English and Spanish), and handout for specific examples on how to communicate and model directions clearly.

Source: ECE Resource Hub by the University of Virginia


Go Nutrition and Physical Activity Self-Assessment for Child Care (NAPSACC) Bilingual Self-Assessments

Summary: Free for providers. Contacting a consultant and completing the online version of the social emotional assessment opens a suite of planning, learning, professional development, and implementation tools to understand further what the best practices are and how to make them happen in your child care.

Source: Go Nutritional and Physical Activity Self-Assessment for Child Care (Go NAPSACC)


Teaching Social-Emotional Skills: Teacher-Child Relationship

Summary: Multiple materials that can guide classroom practice, including information on positive communication and positive descriptive feedback, relationship-building strategies, re-teaching skills and routines after breaks, and individualizing approaches.

Source: National Center for Pyramid Model Interventions


Teaching Tools for Young Children: Using Function-Informed Support to Address Challenging Behavior within Routines

Summary: This resource provides practitioners and coaches with practical, step-by-step strategies to help children who struggle with challenging behaviors during routines and activities, supporting their successful engagement.

Source: National Center for Pyramid Model Innovations


Tips for Giving Directions

Summary: Resources designed for providers of 2-to 4-year-olds on giving clear directions that empower children and promote positive interactions.

Source: Center for Disease Control


Using Cues and Visuals

Summary: Video lessons on increasing inclusivity and avoiding humiliating children by using cues and visuals. Find by found by scrolling down. Further still are printable resources such as a child care provider guide, family guide (English and Spanish), handout for specific examples on using cues and visuals, and using cues and visuals to support children with disabilities.

Source: ECE Resource Hub by the University of Virginia

“Children receive more positive attention and descriptive comments than redirection.”

A-to-Z’s of Early Childhood

Summary: Short videos, quick tips, and printable tip sheets on how to strengthen children’s development can be found under each letter of the alphabet. See “B” for Behavior, “D” for Disciple, “E” for Everyday Learning Opportunities and how to support them with positive attention, and “S” for Social and Emotional Development and Learning.

Source: University of Florida Anita Zucker Center for Excellence in Early Childhood Studies


Behavioral Expectations and Positive Guidance

Summary: Age-appropriate positive guidance from birth to age 12.

Source: Utah Department of Health and Human Services


Behavior Interventions and Positive Behavior Support

Summary: Guides, tools, training materials, and more regarding appropriately addressing challenging behaviors in young children.

Source: National Center for Pyramid Model Innovations


Classroom Strategies

Summary: Resource library on building core social emotional skills, including relationship building, self-regulation, and communication. Resources under each strategy may include videos, podcasts, and brief downloadable/printable guides.

Source: ECE Resource Hub by the University of Virginia


Go Nutrition and Physical Activity Self-Assessment for Child Care (NAPSACC) Bilingual Self-Assessments

Summary: Free for providers. Contacting a consultant and completing the online version of the social emotional assessment opens a suite of planning, learning, professional development, and implementation tools to understand further what the best practices are and how to make them happen in your child care.

Source: Go Nutritional and Physical Activity Self-Assessment for Child Care (Go NAPSACC)


Practical Strategies for Teachers and Caregivers

Summary: Under the section “Tools for Working on “Building Relationships””, see Some Starters for Giving Positive Feedback and Encouragement, available in both English and Spanish.

Source: Center on the Social and Emotional Foundations for Early Learning


Recommendations and Considerations for Positive Descriptive Feedback

Summary: Practical tips on how to give culturally and age-appropriate positive descriptive feedback.

Source: National Center for Pyramid Model Innovations


Skill Building Opportunities

Summary: 1-page guides for parents and professionals to help them turn common behavioral issues into opportunities to promote life skills in children. Browse all of the resources available in both English and Spanish, or filter by skill or age.

Source: Mind in the Making


Teaching Social-Emotional Skills: Teacher-Child Relationship

Summary: Multiple materials that can guide classroom practice, including information on positive communication and positive descriptive feedback, relationship-building strategies, re-teaching skills and routines after breaks, and individualizing approaches.

Source: National Center for Pyramid Model Interventions


Using Cues and Visuals

Summary: Video lessons on increasing inclusivity and avoiding humiliating children by using cues and visuals. Find by found by scrolling down. Further still are printable resources such as a child care provider guide, family guide (English and Spanish), handout for specific examples on using cues and visuals, and using cues and visuals to support children with disabilities.

Source: ECE Resource Hub by the University of Virginia

“At the program, emotional humiliation is never used by anyone in contact with the children.”

Behavioral Expectations and Positive Guidance

Summary: Age-appropriate positive guidance from birth to age 12.

Source: Utah Department of Health and Human Services


Behavior Interventions and Positive Behavior Support

Summary: Guides, tools, training materials, and more regarding appropriately addressing challenging behaviors in young children in partnership with families.

Source: National Center for Pyramid Model Innovations


Caring for Our Children Basics

Summary: Outlines a set of voluntary, foundational health and safety standards for early care and education programs. Based on best practices, these standards are designed to help protect children and support their healthy development in child care settings. See a list of prohibited teacher and caregiver behaviors in discipline on page 19 of this document.

Source: National Center on Early Childhood Quality Assurance, Administration for Children and Families


Communication is Key

Summary: Practical tips and examples on how to communicate expectations and redirect young children.

Source: National Center for Pyramid Model Innovations


Essentials for Parenting Toddlers and Preschoolers

Summary: Designed for parents of 2-to 4-year-olds, resources focus on encouraging good behavior and decreasing misbehavior using proven strategies like positive communication, structure and rules, clear directions, and consistent discipline and consequences. Find articles with a variety of skills, tips, and techniques; videos featuring parents, children, and parenting experts who demonstrate and discuss skills; and free print resources like chore charts and daily schedules.

Source: Center for Disease Control


Go Nutrition and Physical Activity Self-Assessment for Child Care (NAPSACC) Bilingual Self-Assessments

Summary: Free for providers. Contacting a consultant and completing the online version of the social emotional assessment opens a suite of planning, learning, professional development, and implementation tools to understand further what the best practices are and how to make them happen in your child care.

Source: Go Nutritional and Physical Activity Self-Assessment for Child Care (Go NAPSACC)


Teaching Social-Emotional Skills: Teacher-Child Relationship

Summary: Find multiple materials that can guide classroom practice, including information on positive communication and positive descriptive feedback, relationship-building strategies, re-teaching skills and routines after breaks, and individualizing approaches. See tracking guides for accessing your program’s use of positive communication and positive discipline.

Source: National Center for Pyramid Model Interventions


Teaching Tools for Young Children: Using Function-Informed Support to Address Challenging Behavior within Routines

Summary: This resource provides practitioners and coaches with practical, step-by-step strategies to help children who struggle with challenging behaviors during routines and activities, supporting their successful engagement.

Source: National Center for Pyramid Model Innovations


Using Cues and Visuals

Summary: Video lessons on increasing inclusivity and avoiding humiliating children by using cues and visuals. Find by found by scrolling down. Further still are printable resources such as a child care provider guide, family guide (English and Spanish), handout for specific examples on using cues and visuals, and using cues and visuals to support children with disabilities.

Source: ECE Resource Hub by the University of Virginia

“At the program, physical punishment is never used by anyone in contact with the children.”

Behavioral Expectations and Positive Guidance

Summary: Age-appropriate positive guidance from birth to age 12.

Source: Utah Department of Health and Human Services


Behavior Interventions and Positive Behavior Support

Summary: Guides, tools, training materials, and more regarding appropriately addressing challenging behaviors in young children in partnership with families.

Source: National Center for Pyramid Model Innovations


Caring for Our Children Basics

Summary: Outlines a set of voluntary, foundational health and safety standards for early care and education programs. Based on best practices, these standards are designed to help protect children and support their healthy development in child care settings. To see a list of prohibited teacher and caregiver behaviors in regards to disciple, see page 19 of this document.

Source: National Center on Early Childhood Quality Assurance for Children and Families


Communication is Key

Summary: Practical tips and examples on how to communicate expectations and redirect young children.

Source: National Center for Pyramid Model Innovations


Essentials for Parenting Toddlers and Preschoolers

Summary: Designed for parents of 2-to 4-year-olds, resources focus on encouraging good behavior and decreasing misbehavior using proven strategies like positive communication, structure and rules, clear directions, and consistent discipline and consequences. Find articles with a variety of skills, tips, and techniques; videos featuring parents, children, and parenting experts who demonstrate and discuss skills, and free print resources like chore charts and daily schedules.

Source: Center for Disease Control


Go Nutrition and Physical Activity Self-Assessment for Child Care (NAPSACC) Bilingual Self-Assessments

Summary: Free for providers. Contacting a consultant and completing the online version of the social emotional assessment opens a suite of planning, learning, professional development, and implementation tools to understand further what the best practices are and how to make them happen in your child care.

Source: Go Nutritional and Physical Activity Self-Assessment for Child Care (Go NAPSACC)


Teaching Social-Emotional Skills: Teacher-Child Relationship

Summary: Multiple materials that can guide classroom practice, including information on positive communication and positive descriptive feedback, relationship-building strategies, re-teaching skills and routines after breaks, and individualizing approaches. See tracking guides for accessing your program’s use of positive communication and positive discipline.

Source: National Center for Pyramid Model Interventions


Teaching Tools for Young Children: Using Function-Informed Support to Address Challenging Behavior within Routines

Summary: This resource provides practitioners and coaches with practical, step-by-step strategies to help children who struggle with challenging behaviors during routines and activities, supporting their successful engagement.

Source: National Center for Pyramid Model Innovations